
Every Relationship within your dental office requires an Emotional Bank Account. Once recognized, you will begin to understand the importance of carefully establishing accounts for every individual within your life. This includes your dental team and dental patients. Preparation for each account is imperative. The giving of time and thoughtfulness will effectively enhance learning, build achievement, and allow healthy change to occur. Once prepared, move forward by making deposits of trust, thoughtfulness, and a willingness to understand. So that over time, when you make withdrawals, by asking someone to change something, you won't deplete the account too much. It is important to make deposits first, build healthy relationships, etc… before allowing any withdrawals to occur.
Whether you are seeking to understand a Team Member in the Dental Practice, a Patient, or even someone very close to you; remove your egocentric viewpoint. Our mind must understand their thought process and then take a walk in their shoes to fully comprehend their feelings. Try to completely LISTEN to the other person. When we gather our next thought; the tendency to fire off a response explodes. You must learn to listen and genuinely concentrate on the conversation taking place.